While reflecting upon to
write today's Chintan, there was a strange set of thoughts that had inundated
my mind..yesterday's discussion with another friend from the fraternity was
still fresh in my mind. He had asked : What is the first step to build in great
interpersonal relationships specially at work place.. and the discussion
continued around many such perspectives from trust to empowerment..but somehow
what struck me was the poignant question : all these would be mere transactions
in the external world of the individual if the same is not replicated
/experienced /felt internally as well.. how would it impact the thoughts /the
feelings unless that inner connect is made..
And it comes when one
nurtures one self..Self nurturence is the first step to building
sustainable relationships with self as well with others!!!
Nurturing Self
- Play positive : your
- Choose Words that Inspire
- Choose language that Heal
- Open the Lock : talk it out with your blocks
- Unclog your thoughts
- Accept the past events script
- Honour your spirit
- Love yourself to accept the YOU in you
- Rescript your new dialogues
- Look around : You are Lucky
- Connect with others and do with all love
“Be the one who nurtures
and builds. Be the one who has an understanding and a forgiving heart one who
looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them.” ―
Marvin J. Ashton
I draw a lot of strength
from the above lines which still now
reverberate as these words have semblance to what my grandmother often
said...Make people around you feel better in your company , you do not know what his
story is ..Be compassionate.
This inbuilt
logic/philosophy has many a times made me feel good..as in these kind of
situations where my mind would urge my tongue to spit venom , my inner I has restrained
it ..and that has paved way to such beautiful relationships that we have
nurtured.
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